When your in love, are you really in love, or are you not?

If you are looking for love, would you recognize it if you found it?

Can you tell the fucking difference between love and infatuation?


Here we go.

For a starter, i shall put it purely into a guy's perspective view.

"How would you know you have found your love, if your looking for one, how could u recognize that she's the one?"

How the fuck can you srsly recognize that you found your love?

Let me state some 'NORMAL' answers that would be possible.

*The girl has got a great character, i love her because of that.

*The girl is so caring and kind, i love her because of that.

*I just love the girl because i love the girl. No whys. Can you explain why is 1+1 = 2?

Let's not waste any fucking time and just say that the answers above are just total bullshit. Yea, you heard me, total bullshit. Your trying to say, you love the girl JUST because of her character?

Reality check.

What makes you notice the girl in the first place?

Her looks. May it be her figure, her cuteness, her hotness, or w/e. The first impression will be always be based on looks. And please don't come arguing that you don't agree on that. It will be just another lame and stupid fucking debate. I wouldn't completely disagree that character is not a factor in loving/liking someone. It will probably be the second factor that we guys would consider. Looks, is a necessity, character wise, it's just a bonus. Face it.

'Can you tell the fucking difference between love and infatuation?'

There is only a thin line of difference between love and infatuation.
Love is really hard to define though. For me, probably i'll define love as any number of emotions, and strong sense of affection that may occurs. Infatuation doesn't differ much from love, but instead, it's the state of being completely carried away by unreasoned love, a probably intense but short-lived passion or admiration of someone. The both are totally different. Let me try to explain it.( If i can LOL, im not claiming to be an expert. Just some simple thoughts from me.)

Finally you have met him or her. All your life, or so it seems, you have been waiting for the person. The person who made you heart pound, made the stars bright, and probably taken all possibly thoughts of making love in any places that you have fantasized of. Food seems a mere inconvenience, and sleep is just something you used to do. Everyone teases you. But still, you felt that every second of your life should be about him/her. You world starts to only revoluntionize around him/her. You want a soul mate, but you couldn't imagine introducing him/her to your mom and dad, cause she/he is just way too sexy.

Then you guys start to go public. Being an item. Everyone knows you and invites you as an couple. People you know and probably yourself would try to speculate about the future of your relationship. But would you fucking dare to speculate or imagine about the future of your relationship? Or are you just afraid to face the commitment that lies ahead of you?

Love is a dynamic changing process.(dynamic refers to time evolution of "physical" processes in this case) Love is always on the move, and changing. Relationships that flexes, changes and grow when people mature. Dynamic process of love equals a sharing of emotion, trust, growth of relationship, able to live harmoniously through time or death, depending on each other in time of crises, taking care of children, and aging relatives.

So is it just infatuation? In infatuation, your gaze, your thoughts, and your world revolves around him/her. You probably didn't care much about his/her flaws, or you had yet to see em. Your probably just acting around in a 'sub-conscious' mind. Your too attracted to her, and you know you can't stop right now. You would probably just miss the nights where you two get all crawly in your underwears. It seems that the world pales in comparison to this person looks, talents, intelligence, and sexuality. Try removing the blinders that prevented you so much from looking at his/her flaws. There could be possible destructive traits in your relationships. Your thoughts on romance was probably just an innocent fantasy. An infatuation that felt like love.

So you would try to argue. Even all that, you think that your love is love. It's not an infatuation. Try to think. What's the real reason that you came into this relationship? Innocence? Lust? Loneliness? A longing to grow up, and be a real man?(LOL) Yea, try thinking of those factors, it would probably help.

Try to differentiate between love interest, or just plain lust interest.

That's all for today.

And one more thing, Junaidi's from Fnatic.

Peace out mofos.

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