Party Party Party.

This question, until today, is carved deep into my heart;

-Would you mind being a third party, if yes, is that wrong, or is that right?-

Firstly. Who the fuck wanna be a third party of a r/s? Its not like being in threesome or w/e fuck isn't it?
But sometimes, things aren't so simple. Not everything can be controlled, and matters of the heart is one of em.

Some would say yes. It depends on the opposite sex. May it be sexual appeal, appearance, character, charisma, every of this factor does their part. Some people may consider being a third party in a r/s if he/she really likes the opposite sex. And reasons like, 'i can't control it', may also occur.

But still, the majority said no. Imagine you and your gf, then someone comes in as a third party. Would you like that? Fuck no you wouldn't.

Lets go further shall we?

For those whom their minds are thinking, 'why can't i be in a third party, there's no fair and square in love!"
I can say that you are right. Well, partially. Love is not a thing. It can't be controlled. Falling in love with someone that is attached is not wrong. You can't help it can you? If the opposite sex likes you, and you two are indeed cheating. Is that right, or is that wrong?

Obviously, 'cheating' is a word that's bound to be wrong. But lets look it at another point of view. Imagine Guy A, is attached to Girl B. Your Guy C and you like Girl B. If you express your feelings to Girl B, and she doesn't like you. Okay fine, go cut your wrist and fuck yourself. But if she does like you, you two started to hang out pretty much often, then YOU became a third party. Is that really wrong? If Girl B do not like you, you wouldn't be a third party would you? So even without you stepping in, the r/s wouldn't last long either. Well this is just another point of view. No offence to the girls, this point of view could be vice versa.

With what i wrote above, it meant no other then being a third party is not totally all wrong.

But if it has any right in being a third party.. How right can it get when your being a mother fucker destroying relationships?

OMG I'M GETTING CONFUSED. ARE YOU GUYS GETTING CONFUSED?

I think that, there is no right, no wrong in being a third party.It can be looked at lots of perspective views. Love cannot be stopped, nor controlled. If you really like someone, you should get all out to woo her. On the other hand, your being a douche bag destroying people's r/s.

For what ive experienced. I think that the hardest in being a third party is not being right or wrong. Its when you became, the right and the wrong. When you tell the girl that you can't do this anymore, it is so not fucking right. The girl says that she can't let you go. When you tell the girl to break up with her bf, she said she can't.
You try to 'enter' the r/s, you can't, because, its a matter of principle.
You try to 'exit' the r/s, you can't, cause the girl said she can't let you go, and your heart softened, and deep down in ya fucking heart you know you can't let go either.
You can't love, and you cannot not love.

It's worse then being ditched.

It's worse then being rejected.

It's worse then being heartbroken.

It's worse then making unsuccessful confessions.

It's hurtin me, until today.

Afterall, it's your own choice, to fall into the bottomless pit.



If babe, your reading this, please do not be mistaken. ;D

I'm not writing about you. It's just a theme for my blog.

Make love not wars.

Make parties not third parties. ( LOL )

Peace out fuckahhhhhs.


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